In an engaging video on social media, content creator Thicky Sandra shared advice for women ahead of Valentine's Day.
She encouraged women to be independent, and hardworking, and to focus on building their own reputations. This challenges the common stereotype that women rely on men for everything.
"Don't just sit around expecting a miracle from heaven,” said Sandra. “People appreciate women who are independent, not lazy, and who bring something to the table.”
She posed: “Ask yourself, what are you doing? Make the most of yourself, build a brand around your name, and create your own legacy. No one will remember you if you do nothing. So get up, get out of bed, brush your teeth, do your hair, wash them dishes, and get on with your day, girl."
She offered tips on achieving success and highlighted the benefits of being unique and having creative ideas. Sandra Mbuvi, popularly known as Thicky Sandra, is a businesswoman and fashion model who uses social media to promote businesses and generate income. She is the youngest daughter of former Nairobi Governor Mike Mbuvi Sonko.
"The first step to success is having your own mindset. A baddie doesn't need permission to succeed—do your own thing. You have to believe that you are capable and worthy of anything you want," she said.
The social media influencer also advised 'baddies' on the importance of self-belief and daily affirmations to foster motivation and a success-oriented mindset.
"Every morning, I tell myself I’m a queen—capable and worthy of success. I have daily affirmations that help me manifest my goals,” she said.
“Always start your day with positive affirmations and see how much you grow as a person. What is meant for you will always find you. You are in control of your energy, aura, and surroundings.”
Thicky Sandra also emphasised the need to protect one's boundaries and prioritise time management, saying, "You have the power to choose your path, and time management is key. Plan your days like CEOs do. Pick productive days, and if you don’t have a hustle, create one.”
She concluded: “A woman must also set her boundaries. Do you want to negotiate your boundaries? Don’t you love yourself? If someone crosses your boundaries, they are not your people."