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Chris Hart

How can I help my kids build stronger social skills?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-06 10:45:29

Help them develop self-awareness, empathy, and emotional intelligence by discussing their feelings with them and how their behaviour affects other people

Is there more to cheating than just the physical act?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-06 12:49:20

Most cheats start when their marriage is going through a rough patch and someone offers a sympathetic ear

When does control cross the line into an abusive relationship?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-14 10:03:40

From time to time, everyone gets so angry that they think unkind thoughts about their partner. But you should worry if your thoughts are motivated by fear rather than anger

What small, daily rituals can bring my husband and me closer?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-14 11:18:48

It is difficult to feel connected when you’re busy, but there are some small daily habits that will help loads

How do we keep the spark alive after the honeymoon phase?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-21 10:32:00

Start initiating intimacy more often. You’ll feel great being in control, and your husband will love it

Is there a way to spot predators so we can avoid them?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-21 12:43:59

Narcissists are much more likely to be sexual predators than empathetic men. Offenders usually start when they’re young, while they’re at school or in their first couple of years at college

Is my daughter's obsession with looks normal or a warning sign?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-28 11:54:21

Daughters who are constantly reminded of their parents’ high expectations have the best chance of growing up to become successful women

My teens are smoking! Is it about being 'cool' or something deeper?

By Chris Hart   2025-10-28 12:26:56

Focus first on being involved in your teenager’s lives, quit if you’re a current user, and don’t let anyone smoke in your house

Is this just a slump, or am I heading for divorce?

By Chris Hart   2025-11-03 09:43:41

Committed relationships aren’t only about romance; they’re mostly about figuring out how to work through the hard times

I'm worried about remarrying. Will I just mess it up again?

By Chris Hart   2025-11-03 11:39:29

The second time around, you’ll be far more ‘we’ focused. You’ll realise that a marriage is much more about being a team, and isn’t simply two people being sexy together

Do soul mates really exist?

By Chris Hart   2025-11-15 11:30:00

The divorce stats suggest not, but there is someone out there who’s just right for you. And when you find them, you’ll just know it and will suddenly realise why things never worked out before.

How to move on after breakup: expert advice for rebuilding your life

By Chris Hart   2025-11-15 12:30:00

A relationship becomes part of your identity and so, when it ends, your sense of who you are is also broken. emories keep intruding, and even preparing a meal reminds you that something’s missing. 

'Kiss test' and other ways to gauge your marriage is okay

By Chris Hart   2025-12-03 09:40:50

It’s not that anything bad’s happened, but I often notice other couples having difficulties and wonder whether my friends can see the cracks appearing in my relationship before I do!

Why can't celebrity relationships last?

By Chris Hart   2025-12-04 08:37:42

We were arguing in the office the other day about how often celebrity relationships seem to fall apart. Are they just awful people? Or can we learn something from their difficulties?

If we love each other, why do we keep arguing so much?

By Chris Hart   2025-12-10 09:26:40

I love my husband, but we have so many arguments! It’s not that he’s a bad man, but somehow we don’t seem to think the same way. What should I do?

Are you scared of giving your children the sex talk?

By Chris Hart   2025-12-11 08:36:12

My parents never even mentioned sex when I was a child, so now I find talking about intimacy really difficult. So how can I do better with my own children?

We stopped flirting after we got married, can we fix that?

By Chris Hart   2025-12-13 10:43:52

I loved how my husband and I used to flirt while we were dating, but once we got married, that all just stopped. I’d love to get back to that mood. Do you think it’s possible?

The sex talk: Handling intimacy conversations with your children

By Chris Hart   2025-12-19 09:00:00

My parents never even mentioned sex when I was a child, so now I find talking about intimacy really difficult. How can I do better with my own children?

Is it possible to change a controlling partner?

By Chris Hart   2025-12-22 08:00:00

My boyfriend’s never been violent, but he puts me down, he’s possessive, insists on looking at my phone messages and is funny about me visiting friends and family. What can I do to get him to change?

How do I talk to my teenagers without starting a fight?

By Chris Hart   2025-12-23 10:17:13

I have teenagers, and we row! They roll their eyes, storm off, slam doors, they’re prickly, rebellious and secretive. What am I doing wrong?